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Advice for those who have arthritis: Looking after your baby/young child

Introduction

This leaflet aims to provide practical solutions to help you, when you have arthritis, to look after your baby/young child during day-to-day activities. It might be helpful if you are pregnant to prepare practically for the arrival of your baby.

Arthritis can lead to increased pain, joint stiffness, and weakness. Large loads and pressure placed on joints can cause them to become tired more easily and increase pain. It is important therefore to look after your joints whilst completing childcare tasks.

Bringing home a newborn can be daunting for anybody. Most parents find that the first few months of parenthood are quite exhausting. It is important therefore to think about the most energy efficient ways of carrying out daily tasks.

During pregnancy some women can find that swelling and pain significantly improve but some find their joints flare after birth. It may be that you need extra support and advice if your symptoms get in the way of caring for your baby. You can contact the rheumatology advice line, your pharmacist or GP if you need extra support. There is also helpful information on the NRAS website (more details at the back of the leaflet).

Handling and holding baby

  • When joints are sore it can be difficult to hold your baby for a long period of time.
  • When sitting and holding your baby, make sure you are in a supportive chair with cushions to rest your arms on.
  • Consider using your forearms to rest your baby on, this will allow your hands to have a rest.
  • Having a pram in the house may be helpful to put your baby in for you to soothe them. This avoids you having to hold your baby for too long.
  • Many cots or mosses baskets can be set at a different height. It maybe that, depending on the age of your baby, a different height could be easier for lifting your baby in and out.
  • Slings and baby carrier can be very helpful to use when in the house/out and about. You can buy slings and carriers either online or from a store (more details about slings can be found in the section ‘out and about’).
  • If family/friends are close by, make sure you ask for support when you need it.

Feeding hints & tips

Breast feeding

  • You will need to check with your consultant or nurses which medications are safe to take whilst you are breast feeding.
  • Make sure you use pillows or a rolled-up towel for support under your arms. Consider which position is comfortable for you and your baby.
  • The NHS ‘start 4 life’ breast feeding web page demonstrates comfortable feeding options and helpful tips (details of the website can be found at the back of this leaflet).
  • Raising your feet may be comfortable when feeding your baby.
  • It may be helpful to get hold of cushions/pillows that will support your baby whilst feeding, make sure your baby is at a good height so you are in a good posture. There are various cushions available for positioning when breast feeding.

Bottle feeding

  • For bottle feeding make sure you have enough bottles available, make sure the tops are not fastened too tight when cleaned. Consider using a dycem sheet (a material that helps you to grip onto items) to help open bottles – your Occupational Therapist can provide you with this.
  • Take time to look at options available for bottles and sterilisers. Consider the way you hold the bottle, for example at the smallest neck part where the grip required is smaller.
  • Consider if someone else could help with feeding your baby to give you a short break.
  • Some babies take longer than others to feed so make sure you are comfortable and relaxed. Look at cushions to support you and baby.

Nappy changing

Here are some practical solutions which may help:

  • It helps to be organised and have everything you need to hand. Organise a changing area upstairs and downstairs to reduce the number of times you go up and down the stairs with your baby.
  • Alternatively it may be easier to bring the equipment to your baby rather than carrying your baby.
  • Choose a piece of furniture that is an appropriate height. This should be a height that stops you having to stoop over. Never leave your baby unattended on a raised surface.
  • Consider using a trolley with wheels to put the changing equipment on. This will avoid having to carry items.
  • Keep a duplicate set of changing equipment, nappies and spare clothing in the car and at homes of family/friends visited on a regular basis.
  • Consider the ease of use of all equipment including changing bags, nappies, baby wipes, creams and lotions. This means thinking about the containers that they are in. Are they easy to open? Can you find everything that you need easily in the changing bag?
  • Consider which type of nappy would work better for you disposable or washable?
  • Some tabs on nappies are easier than others to fasten. Try them out before purchasing. It may be that somebody loosens the fastenings on nappies (before use) to prepare for the day ahead.
  • It may be possible to get disposable nappies delivered to your home.
  • Baby wipes may be easier for cleaning an older child (for young children seek advice from your midwife).
  • If using lotions avoid using bottles that need to be squeezed. Use creams with large lids for easy opening.

Out and about

Find a good carry sling. Booking an appointment or joining drop-in sessions to try out different ones from the West Yorkshire Sling Library – think about fastenings and carry positions.

Website: https://wyslinglibrary.com.

Prams

There are many different types of pram available. It is helpful to try out various prams before you buy one.

Below are things to think about when choosing one:

  • Think about the weight of the pram. A light one maybe easier to manoeuvre.
  • Consider the controls to put the pram up and down. Are they easy to release? Are they operated by hand or foot?
  • A storage space and handles to hang things up or a basket for shopping/days out can be helpful.
  • Is the pram at a comfortable height? Is it adjustable?
  • How easy is the rain cover to get on and off?
  • How easy is it to lift in and out of the car?
  • Is the pram easy to wheel in and out of the house? It maybe that a lighter pram is easier if you are on your own.
  • High prams with large wheels are easier to use outside but not so good for getting into the boot of a car. Make sure to try out before buying.

Sleep

  • Moses baskets are lighter for young babies. Using with a stand makes it easier to move. Some people find it helpful to have one upstairs and one downstairs or a family member to help move it for you.
  • Alternatives are cots where you can adjust the height the mattress sits in the cot depending on the age of the baby.
  • Try and get hold of a drop sided cot although not regularly available.

Change bags

There is a lot of things that you need:

  • Think about the ease of getting the things in and out of the bag and the fastenings.
  • A rucksack style changing bag may be more suitable.
  • Give yourself time to check that you have everything in it that you need.

Car seats

  • These can be challenging due their weight.
  • It may be easier to lift your baby in and out of the car. Some car seats turn so you don’t have to twist to reach into car.
  • Consider a light-weight car seat.
  • Think about the ease of fastening them in and releasing the straps with a seat buckle tool

Changing mats and bathing equipment

Try before you buy – sales assistants can guide you through the features of a product and help you to choose the most suitable, practical item for you.

Changing mats

Are available with Velcro fastening and safety harness. This can allow you to wash/dress/change your baby at a working height suitable for you – by placing it on a bed, table or changing table. Make sure that your baby is not left unattended. As they get older and are rolling and moving around changing on the floor can be easier.

Baby baths

There are many different types of baby baths available to buy. Important things to consider are:

  • Where will you be using the bath? Options can include a bath to be placed in the family bath or a bath to be placed on a work surface such as a table or counter. Placing the bath at an appropriate working height for you is important. Consider the size of the bath and the period of time you will be using it is important.
  • Bathing near to a tap or using a shower hose for filling can avoid lifting a heavy bath with water in.
  • Does the bath have a drainage point? If not a lightweight plastic jug can be used for filling/emptying the bath.
  • Inflatable baby baths are available to buy. They do not provide sufficient support for leaning on, but are lightweight and portable and can be placed in the family bath.
  • Baby baths on stands/trolleys are available. These can have a wheeled base, lockable casters, be set at a practical working height, include drainage hose and have a changing area on top/attached with draws/shelves built in for storage.
  • If someone is able to pass your baby to you and lift then out of the bath, consider getting in the bath yourself at bath time. This means you don’t have to bend over the tub and it can be lots of fun.

Other Resources

Top Tips

  • Don’t forget about things that may have worked for your joints prior to your baby arriving.
  • For example, rest periods, using warm water/joint soothing techniques.
  • Complete meal preparation and freeze in advance, to help with an easy and healthy diet when baby arrives.
  • Make sure you are getting enough exercise - even at home stretches to stay as strong as possible.
  • Using small things you enjoy/like to help with mood management.

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, Bradford Royal Infirmary, Duckworth Lane, Bradford BD9 6RJ.

Date of publication: Nov 2024
Review Date: Nov 2026
MID Ref: 24010903